Codes of conduct

Parents and players sign these Codes of Conduct during the registration process. They are listed here for reference purposes.

BBFC Player Code of conduct

  • Players are expected to conduct themselves in a manner which respectfully represents and does not bring discredit upon Bogue Banks FC.

  • Players shall refrain from using profanity and derogatory comments based on race, gender, sexual orientation, or religion at all times.

  • Players will show respect towards teammates, clubmates, referees, opposing players, coaches, and parents at all times.

  • Players will not harass, abuse, or berate a match official for any reason at any time.

  • Players should arrive on time and be prepared for all training sessions and games.

  • Players shall not participate in physical violence on or off the field.

  • Players are expected to attend all training sessions, games and team related functions.

  • Players are expected to wear approved attire at all related activities.

  • Players are expected to be respectful of the facilities used, both at home and away.

  • Use or possession of any illegal substance (alcohol and drugs including, but not limited to, E-cigarettes, Vapor products or E-liquid) or participation in illegal activity of any kind will not be tolerated.

  • When traveling with a team, Players are expected to follow all team rules established by the coach (this includes, but is not limited to, curfews, behavior in a hotel, behavior at a restaurant, etc.)

  • Players are expected to maintain the highest standard of conduct and good sportsmanship on and off the field.

  • Players are encouraged to use good judgement when using any social media outlet. Negative and derogatory comments will not be tolerated. This includes the posting of any inappropriate photographs and/or videos.

  • Players are expected to honor all commitments to the team and club.

BBFC Parent Code of conduct

We ask that as a BBFC parent, you always remember you are a role model.

As a proud Bogue Banks FC Parent I will:

  • Always support my child with positive encouragement

  • Respect and adhere to ideals, policies, and rules determined by Bogue Banks FC and my child’s team.

  • Always maintain self-control

  • Respect the facilities, either at home or away, in which my child is privileged to play

  • Show respect for all decisions, judgement, and authority of all officials

  • Show respect for the feelings and accept the capabilities of my child, my child’s teammates, and the players on the opposing team

  • Exhibit a high degree of sportsmanship, teamwork, and positive attitude when representing my child, the team and our club

  • Refrain from coaching from the sidelines during training and games

  • Respect the 24hr rule when dealing with issues and/or concerns I have with respect to my child when communicating with a coach, program director, or staff member

  • Refrain from expressing my opinion of the coaches or players in front of my own child or in a public setting

  • Refrain from using foul language towards others parents, coaches, officials, or opponents

  • Refrain from yelling at or threatening officials, opposing players or coaches - before, during, or after games and training

  • Refrain from using social media to express any negativity toward anyone associated with Bogue Banks FC

  • Refrain from demonstrating frustration or anger after a loss or poor performance

  • Always accept defeat graciously

  • Will commit to both club and team fees in accordance with required schedules

  • Not physically or verbally abuse any other person

  • Refrain from bringing alcohol, drugs or firearms to any Bogue Banks FC games, training, team or club function/activity

BBFC coaches Code of conduct

The safety, welfare and well-being of our youth players are the primary concern and responsibility of Bogue Banks FC. All members, employees, volunteers, and contractors acting as representatives of or on behalf of BBFC, while doing business with BBFC, or attending a BBFC event will adhere to the following:

  • All children will be equally treated with respect regardless of sex, race, religion, and culture

  • Show respect to others involved in the game including match officials, players, coaches, managers, staff and spectators serving as role models for good sportsmanship

  • Adhere to the laws and spirit of the game by promoting fair play and displaying high standards of behavior

  • Always respect the official’s decision. Never approach and/or confront a match official before, during or after a game in any manner that is not positive

  • As a coach, I understand I am responsible for the behavior of my team’s assistants, parents, and fans at all games

  • Children will not be touched in ways that make them feel uncomfortable, and their right to say no will be respected at all times

  • At no time during a BBFC game, training or other BBFC event, will any employee, volunteer, or contractor be alone with a single child where they cannot be observed by others

  • Children will not be left unsupervised. Coaches will not leave any child unsupervised until the child is picked up

  • Any type of abuse will not be tolerated and my be cause for immediate dismissal

    • No player will ever be subject to:

      • Physical abuse - including but not limited to: striking, spanking, shaking, slapping, etc.

      • Verbal abuse - including but not limited to: humiliation, degrading comments, threats

      • Sexual abuse - including but not limited to: inappropriate sexual touching or exposure or conduct which creates a sexually hostile environment

      • Mental abuse - including but not limited to: shaming, cruelty, or neglect such as withholding good, water, basic care, etc.

  • Use of positive techniques of guidance is encouraged, including redirection, positive reinforcement and encouragement rather than comparison and criticism. Staff, volunteers, and team officials will have age-appropriate expectations and set up guidelines and environments that minimize the need for discipline.

  • Physical restraint will be used only when necessary to protect the child or other children from harm. When physical restraint is administered, the situation must be immediately documented in writing to the BBFC Director.

  • The use, possession or being under the influence of alcohol or illegal drugs immediately before and during or immediately following BBFC events involving BBFC players and parents in prohibited. Employees, volunteers, and contractors may be subject to drug screening.

  • Smoking/vaping or the use of tobacco is prohibited when representing BBFC

  • The use of profanity in the presence of BBFC players is prohibited

  • Inappropriate jokes and sharing intimate details of one’s personal life are prohibited

  • Social Networking between adults and individual BBFC players in discouraged. Electronic and phone communications with BBFC players should be limited to soccer specific topics.